About Me :

 

 

"If you love something, set it free, if it comes back, it's yours to be."

"(If it doesn't, it never has been)" - don't agree totally with the latter -.   (someone)
 

"If life is an opera, be sure to take the lead and excel on the scene, all whilst being in the front row contemplating, directing and enjoying yourself !"   (me)

 

About me :

 

Hello ! This is Brussels calling. Here are the results of the Belgian jury ;x)) :


To be, is what I am all about now. Life does begin at 40.
If you took the time and effort to do your homework before.
My motto at the moment is "Oneness". Everything is in everything, and is you. And love, power and freedom.

I'm an openhearthed longhaired teddybear in a hardcore shell. Some say I scare them. Some say I'm ultra-sweet. Some say both.

Being "psychic" as I am, I always connect to a person's true inner self, which makes the hang-ups and luguage pop-up naturally. I've learned not to help anymore, unless asked for. Pretending you are another person than yourself is pretty useless. I'll respect that, but find it a pitty.
And we won't have a true connection, wich makes me distant.
 

You may think I look ruff and hard-core, basically, I'm not. I can be, I just like the look. Yet, there's much more to someone than just the mere outer look. Can you look beyond ? I do.

 

By the way : Yes, I am a healer in energy, alternative medicines, homeopathy, am in touch with the esoteric, and have a great job at one of the "Big Four".
 

About friends & love :


I like friends, but have few. True friends are much more than developped social connections (of which you can have many, believing they're friends, which I don't). I find out that mostly, my level of friendship goes deeper than the other way round.
Than again : I am a passionate romantic like they don't make them often anymore. Covering people with laughs, deep wet sloppy kisses (even just to say hello - which seems to scare the shit out of some -), and like to touch what I like. One doesn't just stare at a chocolate, you eat it. (If we're in love, I'll be pretty much all over you in some kind, most of the time, and want the same, as you are as passionate and loving as I am. Including out on the street and socially in general.).

And more about love : I've learned to be self-sufficient on my own and am very happy that way. If our roads are to cross lovewise, I'll love you from my guts and backbone : as an individual complete person. And so should you be and do. Many relationships thrive on being eachother's complement or stuff-the-lack-in-yourself (and in the other). It can be wonderful and worthwhile, yet, once the personnel lesson learned, the relationship gets empty, and you split up (if you're wise enough to do so, as friends).

So, many relationships are about learning something (even if you don't realise yours is). I'm done with that. The next and only thing I want to learn is : how to grow old with my lover & beloved (ones?).

I prefer messages on my email :
Email SpiritBear
 

Loyalty, honesty and integrity are high on my list (the dragon values), and don't have anything to do with screwing around with others, but with your heart. Sex is a sport, then again, you always have your favorite training buddy ;x))

Not respecting people, can mean not being loyal to me.

Hugs,
J.

How about you ? ;x)))

 

PS: no face pic = no contact , want to know who I am talking to. Thanks for respecting this.

 

Oh, forgot to tell : the "stats" : 5.5" / 1m65 - 155 lbs / 70 kg - broad shoulders - tiny calves - bit of a bear/beer tummy at the moment - deep dark brown eyes - black / brown hair - hairy all over - & lots of humour ! So grounded I can and do laugh anytime, anywhere, anyhow, - naughty on the occasion (there's rarely none, lol) -, unless I'm really serious...